“Should I Text Him?”

One of the biggest issues with girls and guys these days is which one should call or text who first.  Well, it doesn’t matter.  I know that it used to be that the guy was supposed to approach the girl, get her number, and call her.  I think that if a girl finds a guy attractive they should just go for it.  I’ve noticed from my friends and also from me being a girl that we look too much into things.  “Well, he text me at 10:12 p.m. so that means I should wait until, like, 10:23 to text him back.”  If you want to hit him back right away then do it!  Don’t depict every little detail about who gets a hold of who first because you will only stress yourself out.  I find that constantly talking to someone through text can take away from the excitement you would get talking face to face.  I dated a guy who would text me all day and we honestly never had more than a 5 minute conversation when we would hang out.  So, he definitely had to go.  Us girls sometimes take it too far with the whole text messaging issue.  Yes, you might have said goodnight last but that doesn’t mean that you can’t say good morning first.  If you’re thinking about him then just say something to him.  If he decides he doesn’t want to talk to you anymore then I’m sure he will let you know.  A tip:  Text him but obviously not excessively.  If you start acting crazy then he might just block your number!  We don’t want that to happen do we?  Of course not.  Just keep it cool and go about your business.  Everything will fall into place whether we like the outcome or not but just remember that it is totally O.K. to text the guy before he texts you.


One Response to ““Should I Text Him?””
  1. clare says:

    call or text once or twice. if he/she doesnt get back to you within a couple days let them go! Most girls/guys do not want to be bothered a thousand times a day! your wasting your time and theirs!!

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